Funeral wreath - a mournful line between the past and the future

Living in the same time interval, we experience time differently. Some people like to live in memories, rummaging through events that happened long ago, reliving them. Others are completely absorbed in today’s problems; all that matters to them is what is happening here, at this moment. And some are focused on the future, dream, make plans and act to implement them. Why do we relive past events? What are we trying to find or learn there? If in those years we were successful and failed to develop this success, then will re-experiencing help in moving forward in life? Returning to the past disturbs the soul, not giving strength for today’s action.

Only in deep old age do warm memories of happily lived days warm you up and give you strength to live. Until his death, a person scrolls through pictures of life in his head, and seems to feel everything again and again, until the moment when this personal film ends forever. And each funeral wreath will become a gratitude and wish from those who were happy and sad together, grieved and had intimate conversations. Let these memories not become a burden for them, plunging them into the past, but give them a start into the future, become a platform and foundation. This is the only way to develop, step by step turning our “beautiful far away” into reality.

The practice of immersing yourself in the past, constantly going over and experiencing what has already happened and cannot be repeated, can hardly be called constructive. To move forward, you need to urgently change your own attitude towards life, which does not allow you to give up, no matter what happens. Look for that straw that will help you swim out of memories that relax or depress your soul and body to the shore of hope. The right attitude will allow you to find harmony in your thoughts and feelings, actions and deeds. And the melody of life will sound in a new, more optimistic way. Having correctly tuned in and found inner harmony, we look more easily at upcoming events in the future. A good attitude helps you “build and live”, it is easier to accept and experience the twists of fate, and improve your life, taking steps towards new goals. By turning our face to the past, plunging into it, we risk losing both the present and the future. Do we have the right to do this? Of course, everyone can control their own destiny, but our loved ones are nearby. There are turning points in life: the collapse of love, career, serious illness… And without the right attitude, getting out of such a situation is very difficult, and sometimes impossible. And so that irreparable things do not happen, we will look into the future bolder and more optimistic.